Dancing in the Rain

A college friend sent this to me via e-mail. I found it completely tear-jerking. I hope you all find love like this!
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It was a busy morning, about 8:30 am when an elderly gentleman inhis 80’s, arrived to have stitches removed fromhis thumb. He said he was in a hurry as he had an appointment at 9:00 am. I took his vital signs and had him take a seat, knowing it would be over an hour before someone would to able to see him.

I saw him looking at his watch and decided,since I was not busy with another patient, I would evaluate his wound. On exam, it was well healed, so I talked to oneof the doctors, got the needed supplies to removehis sutures and redress his wound.

While taking care of his wound, I asked him if hehad another doctor’s appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry. The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife.

I inquired as to her health. He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer’s Disease. As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late. He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised, and asked him,

“And you still go every morning, even though she doesn’t know who you are?” He smiled as he patted my hand and said, “She doesn’t know me, but I still know who she is.” I had to hold back tears. As he left, I had goose bumps on my arm and thought, “That is the kind of love I want in my life.”

True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be. The happiest people don’t necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything they have.

Here’s to dancing in the rain!!

GG

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